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Written by Sauce-Head
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Sunday, 12 July 2009 23:49 |
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In order to get women, A guy needs to be an alpha male (a man with certain qualities). I agree that a man shouldn't put on an act because it's obvious; he should be himself, as long as his character has the following traits:
Confidence - Speaks for itself. Guys should be confident in themselves.
Attitude - Guys are the selectors, girls are the selectees. Any girl the guy approaches is to see if she is fun and worth HIS time, not to find out if this girl will like him. This goes along with confidence. They have the attitude that they don't NEED women, and don't DESPERATELY want women. They enjoy women like they enjoy good food.
Not being a chump - Being a guy who stands up for himself and doesn't sit there agreeing with a girl thinking that if he has his own thoughts she might not like him. Not living by societies "dating rules". If she tries to test you or push your limits, you call her on it, but in an adult-like manner. Alpha males don't argue or whine.
Living life by your own rules - Alpha males do things on their own terms. They can't be negotiated with, they act with authority, and they get the respect that goes along with that. They can't be tested and they're not subject to social constraints.
Smooth Talkers - They are masters of the art of conversation, and can hold good conversations with anyone--male or female. They can smoothly change subjects and make a conversation flow without it seeming like the guy is asking the girl a ton of random questions. He can keep anyone interested, and as far as himself, he doesn't reveal too much; he keeps the girl in suspense and keeps himself as a mystery about certain things. He understands and knows how to keep a girl wanting more. He remains a challenge for her.
Cocky/funny - He never gives a girl EXACTLY what she wants. He can always make her laugh, and he occasionaly does it in a cocky way showing his confidence. He's creative. Doesn't always say what you'd expect him to say.
Spontaneous - Alphas are spontaneous and handle situations on the spot. They're quick thinkers and act on desires/impulses immediately.
Are not ashamed of their desires - If they're attracted to a woman, they don't try to hide it as if it's something they should be ashamed of. If they are making eye contact with a girl, they don't look away when the girl notices. They maintain eye contact to show that they're confident and not intimidated by her. They are in no way ashamed for being a man.
These are just a few of the qualities. But we have mentioned earlier in the thread that every girl is different, and she must be sized up in order to adapt to her. Some girls like more serious guy with a touch of funny, other girls like really funny guys who are serious on occasion. Nowhere in this thread does it say do this one thing this exact way and you will get every single woman you want.
Women are jealous, curious organisms. They don't choose to be attracted to someone; attraction is something that happens. This thread helps guys understand some of the mind games that girls play, and, be able to develop attraction.
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