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To pay or not to pay
I've had this paying argument with A LOT of my friends ( AFC's), but they still don't listen to me. I'll give you 2 examples.
First example:
I met a HB7.5 at a party last semester. I had met her briefly once before, but didn't even know her name. Anyway, we were hanging out for a couple of minutes when I decided to get her number. So after our fluff talk, I said my famous line, "you’re so much fun, we should hang out some time." She immediately said "Why don't you give me your # and I'll call you up." I looked her straight in the eye and said, "Do I look like a chump, I don't play that bullshit." She IMMEDIATELY said, "here's my #, we'll definitely hangout." So we got together for coffee about a week later. We are in line, when she says, "What are you going to get." Now here's another tip. I don't drink coffee AT ALL, I only go to coffee houses when I'm trying to lay the girl I'm with. However you don't want to tell the girl this. So I said, "umm, I usually get green tea but I think I'll try something different today." While I was talking I noticed that she was rustling through her purse. She then goes, "Oh man!! I don't have enough money?" She then looked me right in the eye, as if to say, "let's see if you’re a wussy and pay for my coffee." I looked right back at her and said, "O, that sucks for you. I guess you'll just have to watch me enjoy my tea." But don't worry we will have a very stimulating conversation so you won't think about the coffee too much." This worked like a charm. Right after this she looks in her purse again and pulls out a $10. She then said, "Oh there's my money, it was at the bottom of my purse."
Example 2:
My good buddy is a complete AFC. He's getting better (thanks to me) but still doesn't understand why the little things I preach make any difference. He also had a coffee get together with a girl, who wasn't even a 7, but he has no game so he settles for ugly bitches. Anyway, I told him before hand that whatever he does DO NOT PAY FOR HER DRINK!!!!! So a few days later he calls me up and I asked him how his coffee get together went. He says it went "pretty good." I then asked him how much money he spent. He says $7.00. I said "what did you get a Super size coffee??" He says, "no I paid for mine and her's." I immediately started yelling at him saying, "are you a chump??" He says "no not at all." Then I say, "then why in the fuck are you acting like one??" He responded by saying "it was only $3.00" Well that's not the point, it’s the fact that he is SUPPLICATING to her. In essence that $3.00 is like a tattoo across his forehead saying, "I can't intrigue you with my personality, so I'm trying to slowly buy a pass to get into your pants." He laughed at this and said I was wrong and I didn't know what I was talking about. He called her again to try to get together; she didn't answer her phone or call him back. He called again and she finally told him that she "kinda has a boyfriend." The sad part is he actually believed it. AFC
Other good lines you can use which will help the girl see you as an Alpha male when you’re in the pay situations are:
"(girl's name), were just friends, when you go out with your friends do you pay for their drinks too?"
This line works especially well because if she's interested in you, by saying "you’re just friends" it will throw her for a 180. You can then initiate kino and heavy flirting to throw her off even more.
"why don't you order first since I am a gentleman, because were getting separate orders anyway." 
same thing here, you’re showing her you’re a gentleman by telling her "ladies first" but you’re also showing her you’re Alpha, and you don't fall for her games."
And if a chick ever tries to say she doesn't have enough money or any money, call her out on it. Say "what kind of person gets all dressed up to go out and doesn't bring any money?" That's almost funny."
This will also show her you’re not a chump.
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