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PUA Lesson #12: Body Language |
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Written by Sauce-Head
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Monday, 22 June 2009 03:22 |
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Pick-up Artist Lesson #12: Body Language
Question: What are some indications that a woman likes you?
Every girl is different; some do things others wouldn't do to show they're interested. But in general, body language is a good way to tell.
Here are some ways to tell if a girl is genuinely interested. You guys hold eye contact for longer than you would with other people. If her head is slightly tilted rather than straight up. If you're sitting next to each other, if her leg is crossed towards you (it may be crossed away but that's not always a bad sign). The important thing with body language is to notice changes in body language. For example, some girls naturally cross their arms because it's a comfortable position. You can't interpret her having her arms crossed as a sign that she isn't open to you. However, if you two are talking and something happens in the conversation that makes her cross her arms, it's usually a good sign that what you said bothered her.
If you say something funny/cocky and the girl hits you gently or pushes you as she laughs, that's a big hint. If you're leaving she'll ask you "where are you going" suggesting an invite. If she laughs a lot. If you're standing there and she comes up close into your personal space.
I remember one girl earlier this year that wasn't too interested in me (cause I was being AFC. I started to unknowingly pay less attention to her). Anyways, I brought her with me to a computer store to pick up a present for someone and noticed her really coming into my personal space. She'd be really close all the time. When I'd stop to look at something, she'd come in close and put her head on my shoulder or chest and try to look on with me. This was a huge hint. She was totally interested by this time, and this was the first of many hints for me to pick up on it.
There are so many ways to tell; these are just a few ways. But honestly, if you just watch her, it's really clear when a girl is interested. Girls usually expect guys to make the first move, so when they're interested, they'll let you know. You just have to be receptive enough to pick up on it. Some girls are more subtle than others.
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