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Pick-up Artist Question and Answer #1: John Sauce-Head, I've been implementing your techniques with great success. I started talking to a girl named Ashley I work with and things were going smooth. I haven't complimented her too much. In the past month or so she went from not knowing I existed to having in-depth conversations with me. We have gone to eat together on our lunch break numerous times. However, she seems to always talk about other guys and ask my advice. I feel like this can't be good that she is talking about other men when I'm with her. What do you think? Thanks,
John
John, Right now you're losing the battle but you haven't lost the war yet  . You hit the ball right on the nose, the fact that she's talking about other guys is NOT GOOD!! She definitely thinks of you as a friend right now. That's ok though, you can change her mind REAL QUICK if you work it correctly. Remember girls work off their EMOTIONS!! To build up her emotions towards you, you need to lead the conversation in that direction. The way you do this is by staying on the subject line and asking her how she FEELS about that. Example: If she says she loves the beach, ask her what she likes about the beach. If she says the shiny, blue water, then ask her how seeing that shiny blue water makes her feel. After she tells you then ask her to close her eyes and imagine she was at the beach right this second, and all she sees is that shiny blue water. Do you get it? Don't jump around from subject to subject. In the example above when she says she likes the beach because of the shiny blue water, don't say "Oh that's cool, how many pets do you have??" Then she's going to think your asking her 20 questions. Building rapport (trust) is VERY important to girls. The first thing you should do is work on your voice tone. Now if your voice sounds like Mickey Mouse and then changes to Mr.T the next day, she's going to think your psycho. So just gradually adjust your voice tone to a deeper, more manly sound. You mentioned that you don't compliment her too much. Well, what have you complimented her on?? Please tell me you didn't tell her she looks hot, or is sexy??? Because then she'll know you want her and its pretty much done if she's as hot as you say she is. You see when you're a PUA and you do everything correctly, the girl will basically show you and then tell you how much she wants your nutz. You don't have to worry about saying, "Ashley I like you, will you go out with me??" Secondly start being cocky around her. Give her the impression that you're not impressed by her "I'm hot" act and that you can see right through her games. And don't think she'll start wanting you suddenly, it will take a week or two if you do it correctly. Lastly, BE BUSY!! Don't hang out with her every chance you get. She'll automatically assume your with another girl. Trust me, girls are jealous creatures. -Sauce-Head
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