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Pick-up Artist Lesson #28 : Confusing women…Pay back Time!
A lot of you read the posts I make and can’t imagine me ever being a AFC…if you only knew. I was the biggest freaking chump you ever met. I’d weigh hand and foot on women, and I was lucky to get them. I’d do sweet/romantic things, I’d compliment them, and I’m sure you know what the result was. Girls walking ALL OVER ME! I grew up getting hurt by so many girls, and I used to think all girls were bitches. Now I realize they’re not bitches, I was just a wuss! That’s right! When you act like an alpha, your opinion of women changes.
So I bet you can all guess what my favorite part of dating women is: CONFUSING THE HELL out of them. I make sure a girl NEVER knows what I’m thinking, and I’ll make it clear to her that I know that she wants me. This puts her in a position where she realizes, “He knows exactly how I feel, but I have no idea wtf he’s thinking!” This is the place you want them in, because women, being the jealous creatures that they are, start saying, “I want to KNOW how to feels about me. Does he like me? Am I ugly? Am I not fun enough?” She’ll do whatever it is she has to do, all so she can KNOW for sure. Yup! All she wants is to KNOW. It’s all a struggle for curiosity. Of course she’s also confused as to why you’re acting this way. I love it when a girl tells me that she’s never met a guy like me, or that I’m so hard to figure out. I realize that only few of you are actually out there dating women, and after this lesson, you’re going to jump up to a new level while everybody else hides behind this damn forum JUST reading.
The big question is how do you confuse women? Well, the first step is to develop an attraction (make her attracted to you). Once she’s attracted, the real game begins. If she’s not attracted, mixed signals do nothing for you.
Then, you begin to throw her mixed signals. Now I know you’ve heard talk of this before, but how you do this is really important. The way you throw mixed signals is by ACTING DIFFERENT THAN EVERY OTHER GUY! That’s right! Think about it.
You and HB are about to get food, and she goes, “I feel like pizza.”
AFC’s go eat pizza. I’d say, “Well I guess we’ll be eating taco’s then smile*” (or whatever else is there).
You have to be c/f when you do this stuff, but it really shows that you do what you want to do, whereas EVERY OTHER GUY SHE HAS EVER dated would’ve taken her to eat pizza. She’s now confused. Also, the PREDICTABLE thing to do would have been to go eat pizza, but you remained unpredictable and took her to eat taco’s. Maybe the 2nd or 3rd time something like this happens you’ll change it up and let her do something she wants to do, then throw her for a loop by doing what you want the next time. Make sense? If you always do the same thing, it becomes predictable and boring.
But what is the basis of this technique? Well, not caring wtf she thinks. If I say something and the bitch gets offended, that’s too bad. I don’t purposely go around trying to piss women off, but I use c/f, and if she doesn’t like it, then I don’t sit there apologizing to her. That’s my personality and I’m not going to change for her.
This night is really stuck on my mind cause I was the most c/f I’ve ever been, so I’ll use it as an example. I was playing pool with this HB a few days ago, and I was totally making fun of how she played pool. She even owned a pool table, which made the teasing even easier for me. I told her she shot like a girl, at one point she didn’t even hit any of the other balls and as I walked by, I leaned in by her ear and whispered, “Don’t worry. Noboooooody else saw.” And smiled as I went to take my shot. This girl was all over me, and I was TEASING HER the ENTIRE time! An AFC would’ve sat there telling her, “Nice shot!” or, “By Golly that was so close!” But she knew I wasn’t going to be her typical, boring guy.
If I was about to shoot and she was standing behind me, I’d lean over my shoulders and look at her, and I’d say, “I know you’re trying to look at my ass, but I know what you’re doing, and this just isn’t the time nor the place.”
Lets take that last line for example. Why is it in a way a mixed signal? Well, I told her she was looking at my ass (c/f, she may have, I just ASSUMED she was), then I pretty much told her not too. Threw her for a loop there.
If a girl tells you to kiss her, and you wanted to string her along and get her even MORE attracted, you could say, “You’re a little forward. We just met and ALREADY you want to kiss? I think we should take things slower” (but this ones all about tonality. The way you say it will deliver the right message). This girl will be confused out of her mind, cause she thought you were attracted, and now she has no idea what’s going through your mind.
By doing shit like this, girls honestly can’t figure out what you’re thinking. All they want is to KNOW for SURE. But you deny them that luxury. Lol.
Once you’ve managed to get a girl really confused, as I mentioned earlier, she’s going to up her game and do everything in her power to find out. She’s going to start pulling out her secret weapons…her last resort!
I’ve had girls ask me what I thought of their breasts (trying to turn me on), ask me if I’d ever have sex with them, show me a tiny bruise or scar on their upper thighs, etc, ALL for the sole purpose of knowing what it was I thought about her. They know guys are horny as fuck, so this way, she’ll use it to her advantage just so she can know. But as soon as she does, the mystery is all over.
What you want to do is give them responses/reactions they weren’t expecting. They EXPECT you to look, touch, or compliment. But instead you act indifferent. If she asks what you think of her breasts, you say, “They’re ok” as you continue doing something else. Not, “Wow! They’re spectacular! Can I touch them???” As soon as you give her that TYPE of response…GAME OVER! You’ve lost. She knows what you’re thinking, she knows what you like, and you better be prepared for the girl to use sex as BAIT (she may or may not; depends on the girl).
Basically, you want to play it off cool the whole time and never give in. These are just some examples, but honestly, to learn this, you won’t learn it from reading. This is one of those things that you have to get your ass out there and try. Once you have a girl in this position, you’ll know EXACTLY what I’m talking about. It’s a great feeling that I absolutely LOVE.
And the last girl that told me she couldn’t figure me out, in case you’re wondering, I told her, “That’s interesting. You know, women can read body language 10x better than men” and she agreed. Then I said, “You should be able to read me like an open BOOK” and smiled. I kept the c/f going, which is what you want to do at all costs.
This whole confusing girls thing goes hand-in-hand with c/f. For those of you out there actually dating, give it a try. It works great, and puts women in the position where they're not only HOPELESSLY ATTRACTED to you, but they'll also do anything.
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Franco