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Pick-up Artist Lesson #25: Getting past the kissing
Before I start talking about advancing past making out, you’re going to need to work on your kissing. Girls when they are attracted to you will want to know what you kiss like. They’re actually DIEING to know. When a girl is REALLY attracted to you, she expects you to be a great kisser. She has this fantasy of you in her head when your game is that good, and if you don’t live up to that, it’s a big turn off. Plus it comes off as if you don’t kiss girls often cause you don’t know how.
David Deangelo says that you should take everything one step at a time, and always be advancing. Sauce already posted the kiss test, so once you’re kissing a girl and making out, then you gotta learn how to get her hot. Guys are a lot easier to turn on; but you gotta do a little more ground work with girls.
Teasing is AMAZING! What you want to do is find something that turns your girl on, or just start with something and wait till you get a positive reaction. For example, as sauce mentioned in the kiss test post, kiss her for a while, then just stop, lean back and look at her in the eye. When she opens her eyes, lean in as if you’re going to kiss her again and begin the teasing. Just as your lips are about to touch rub your cheek on hers and start smelling her. Just smell her hair, neck and shoulders and slowly start kissing her in these areas. As soon as you start getting positive signals and know what really turns her on, then use that as bait. Stop doing what you’re doing and move to somewhere else. Then slowly start to come back to that area and right before you get there, back off. Or tease her around that area or get close to doing what she likes but don’t do it. I like using c/f the whole time. I can’t explain it or give you lines, just look for opportunities.
Once she’s turned on, continue the teasing. Make her beg. Things will slowly progress. Once she’s really turned on, you’ve got her. What you can even do is if she tries to unzip your pants or go down, tell her that she needs to slow down and that you’re not ready to go that far. lol. I love this. Since the girl is so turned on, she won’t take no for an answer. She might say she respects your decision or come up with some other BS, but I guarantee you she’s going to keep trying and trying until you break. The rest is pretty much self-explanatory…
Don’t try to progress until you have her really turned on. I had good success with a girl who I was watching TV on the bed with by just massaging her lower back. I started just outside of the shirt, and then as she started to get turned on, I pulled her shirt up slightly and started massaging her lower back. She LOVED it! If you don’t know how to give a good massage, then find a girl friend that will let you practice and tell you what feels good. Massages are gold too. Start out with a shoulder rub or a back-massage and go from there. Start kissing her neck and shoulders and once you find out what she likes, use it to tease her. Once she’s turned on, then you’re in.
The goal is to make sure YOU are in control, NOT HER! Don’t let her use sex as bait; YOU use it as bait. Once she’s turned on she’s helpless. Then, once she’s in this position, don’t go in for the kill yet—turn her on even more. Make her experience better…don’t rush anything. You need to take your time with women and slow things down.
And use your hands. Stroke her hair while you’re kissing her. Move your hands on/around her face gently and slowly. Use your fingertips. Move your hands down and rub her thighs and hips. Don’t hit any personal areas yet. You want to keep her in suspense…and if you go to early you might blow your chances. Girls don’t want to look like sluts, so they may turn you down not because they don’t want to, but because they don’t want to look like a slut. Girls want it just as bad as guys if not more. So what you do is get her turned on (that way she can’t turn you down…she’s horny), then make her want to, and YOU tease her with it and tell her that she’s moving to fast or any other line a girl would say to a guy. If you do this once you have her turned on it’ll drive her INSANE!
Keep in mind ANTICIPATION BUILDS ATTRACTION. Girls love being surprised and not knowing what’s next. Don’t be predictable. Start then Stop for a second Keep doing it. When you find something that turns a girl on, stop and do something else. Guys usually want to keep going, but their anticipation and desire builds as you do this.
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