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PUA Lesson #24: Increasing Attraction |
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Written by Sauce-Head
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Sunday, 19 July 2009 00:19 |
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Pick-up Artist Lesson #24: Increasing Attraction
This is a basic principle of attraction but it’s a more advanced technique. I’ll start out with a scenario:
Guy likes girl. He isn’t sure if the girl likes him. She keeps giving him mixed signals. Guy confesses his feelings to the girl and the girl tells him that she’s not ready for a relationship (or whatever other excuse).
Not only have I personally been in this scenario in the past…many times, but also I hear about it ALL the time. The guy actually becomes so attracted to the girl that he is always thinking about her, wondering about her, does she like him? Why the mixed signals? So he feels it’s necessary to confess his feelings. If you were to do this:
1. She’s in control
You’re no longer the selector—you’re the selectee. She’s going to have to choose you and you’re going to have to sit back with regrets.
2. You’re not a mystery
She knows exactly how you feel about her and there’s no challenge or mystery. This is unattractive. And these types of guys usually end up acting as if they’re in a relationship when they’re not. Tend to be clingy and whipped. They take orders from the girl.
3. You killed the attraction
Mystery creates attraction; as soon as she knows for sure that you like her 100%, you’re saying that you’re willing to do anything and everything to be with her. She won’t start a relationship with you or date you, but I guarantee you she’ll use you as an intellectual whore and as an emotional tampon. You’ll take her out and buy her stuff, drive her ass around, and hang out with her when she has nothing else to do. She has no respect whatsoever for you.
But the question is, how did the girl increase the attraction? She gave the guy MIXED SIGNALS! This is amazing how well this works. When you get a girl initially attracted, then give her mixed signals, she’s going to be DIEING to know how you feel about her. If you act as if you’re not trying to get with her, but at the same make her think you are attracted, she’ll be like wtf! She won’t be able to figure you out and she will do anything humanly possible to seduce you. I’ve had girls literally throw themselves at me and take commands like a dog would from me because they couldn’t figure me out and/or weren’t getting the reactions they wanted from me.
Now don’t forget that there NEEDS to be initial attraction. If there is no initial attraction, by giving the girl mixed signals, you’re actually doing her a favor. But once there is initial attraction, the mixed signals will throw her for a loop and make her try harder. She turns AFC on YOU and chases after you. These girls will do anything you want them to once you have them in this position.
David Deangelo talked a lot about this. He uses the friend’s method. "Hey, you seem nice... like you might make a nice FRIEND. Give me your number and I'll call you next week and maybe we can be FRIENDS."
The girl is already initially attracted and wonders why the guy isn’t interested in more than just being friends. No guys ever say this to women! They want to find out why you aren’t interested in them as more than friends. Is she not attractive enough? Is she not flirting hard enough? It’s fun to see the reactions you get, but be careful with this cause I know a lot of guys mess this one up because they don't have a balance.
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