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Pick-up Artist Lesson #18: Progression of the AFC Well I thought it might be time to share some of my AFC moments from when I had no clue. A lot of you think that I am a natural born PUA. Well I got news for you, I was pathetic and horrible at one point too. So I'll share a few of my classic AFC moments with you from beginning to end:
8th grade: Got this girl's number from someone who she wasn't even friends with because I thought she was hot. Started the AFC trend of calling her EVERY SINGLE DAY!! Bought her a teddy bear and card for her birthday. This is after I knew her for 3 weeks!!!! Told her how much I liked her. One night I was talking to her on the phone and she told me she had to go because she had swim practice. At the time it was 7:00pm and there was FREAKIN' LIGHTNING outside!!! Another time I called her, she got off the phone and made me talk to her brother!!!! This went on for about a month and after all this I asked her out at one of our school dances in front of 20 people and she looked at me and said "Uh NO!!" I got the best of her in the end though, because my senior year of high school, she was on my nutz I acted like I didn't give a shit...
10th grade: I hung out with a group who were all dating each other except for me and one girl. The girl wasn't even hot, I have no idea how my AFC mind use to think back then. Anyway, I did the most high school thing you could do, I told her best friend that I totally wanted her. After the girl found out, she completely avoided me and stopped hanging out with us on the weekends. LOL
Sophmore year college: Was dating a Super HB 8.5, fake tits, nice ass, beautiful face the whole works. After a month of dating, I bought her flowers, told her how much I cared about her, paid every time I took her out.(She did spend $45 on me one night though) Once she saw that I was an AFC and had no clue, she cast me off with Tom Hanks on LJBF island. I had her in 2 of my classes so for the next few weeks I tried hard to ignore her. It worked well and then I fucked up again by hanging out with her "just as friends." I eventually fell back into the trap of wanting her and had her walk all over me again. She told me how much she wanted to hook up with this guy and that guy. She basically treated me like her emotional tampon. She gave me plenty of opportunities to close the deal but I had NO CLUE. I remember one night we went out drinking. Her sister and her friend came along. Her sister's friend was HOT!! (half black/half french) I remember getting her #(I have no idea how I did this) and HB 8.5 got very jealous. She drove that night and it was just me and her in the car. She reclined her seat and was just staring at me, giving me all the green lights. I sat there like a total AFC and didn't do shit!! LOL- Its all good though she still calls me all the time and you know Sauce-Head will hit it...
I'm pretty lucky seeing that it only took me 2-3 incidents to help me finally realize what I was doing wrong. So let's hear some AFC stories from you all, because I know you have plenty to share. Now some important tips I want to give to you newcomers here taking the mission.
1. Maintain eye contact
-Maintaining eye contact and not flinching gives you more dominance over the chick
-You are showing that you are not just another guy and you are not scared by her presence
- eye contact allows intimacy and makes an "emotional connection" for the chick's mind
-You are gazing past her beauty and soul and you are setting a quality a chick likes in a guy
-You are visually more appealing to her
2. Do not jitter with your mouth
-Do not explain yourself when you talk to a chick, merely ignore it and just laugh it off
-Keep your statement short and concise but do more talking
-Pause between sentences, this stresses importance in what you are saying and the chick will be waiting for you while thinking "OMG WHAT IS HE GOING TO SAY"
3. You have the upper hand
-You lead the conversation and not her
-BE FOREWARNED, some chicks might be surprised you approached them because almost virtually almost NOBODY approaches a chick
Some last words
-Some chicks will gawk you over and won't even give you the chance to talk, don't worry they aren’t worth it then
-Don't be phased by any insults or anything a chick says or does to you
-Don't take ANYTHING personal, this is KEY to SUCCESS
-Leave an open mind for things and don't just gawk at anything you don't believe in
-Do not tell anyone about this, your knowledge of this, do not brag about it, do not even talk anything related to this, First RULE is DO NOT TALK ABOUT THIS STUFF EVER IN YOUR LIFETIME TO ANYONE NOT EVEN YOUR CLOSEST FRIEND, IT WILL HINDER YOU AND THROW YOU BACK LATER ON- there’s a reason I am putting this in capslocks, I can't emphasize this enough, even if you think about doing it FORGET IT AT ALL COSTS- this stuff is a privilege, not a right.
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